They complain but never manage to look for condoms that fit them well enough. It’s a vastly underrated detail. Some brands also make thinner condoms. But of course the easy way out is to endanger everyone 🤦🏻♀️
I’ve never felt more seen in an article! When I’ve shared this experience with friends, they’re like “weird, hasn’t happened to me!” Why?! Why!! It’s the biggest turn off of all time. Yes, stating it ahead of time through text did weed some out in the apps for sure. In person, you get one nice redirect where I trust you, a second nice-ish redirect (where I don’t trust you), and then if there’s MORE resistance, basically, I’ve gone off the boil and want to leave. Sometimes I want to take out an online child-support calculator and make them punch in their income and just stare at that monthly child support amount until their erection disappears (haven’t tried that one yet ;-P). Any personal scripts anyone has for this kind of boundary setting would be greatly appreciated!
GOD, SO MUCH THIS. I've been married and monog for ten years, and thankfully I rarely ran into this attitude when I was dating, but I dated for about 20 years before I met my husband, and hoooooly cow did my friends and I have this discussion all the fucking time.
Like het women need another reason to distrust men. Men will literally do this in the bedroom and then go on the internet and complain about child support and women having abortions without consulting them. Sir, you were dumb enough to put your own pleasure before anything else; what right do you have to complain about what happens next?
They complain but never manage to look for condoms that fit them well enough. It’s a vastly underrated detail. Some brands also make thinner condoms. But of course the easy way out is to endanger everyone 🤦🏻♀️
I’ve never felt more seen in an article! When I’ve shared this experience with friends, they’re like “weird, hasn’t happened to me!” Why?! Why!! It’s the biggest turn off of all time. Yes, stating it ahead of time through text did weed some out in the apps for sure. In person, you get one nice redirect where I trust you, a second nice-ish redirect (where I don’t trust you), and then if there’s MORE resistance, basically, I’ve gone off the boil and want to leave. Sometimes I want to take out an online child-support calculator and make them punch in their income and just stare at that monthly child support amount until their erection disappears (haven’t tried that one yet ;-P). Any personal scripts anyone has for this kind of boundary setting would be greatly appreciated!
Ha, omg, I love the idea of the child support calculator. Brilliant. And yeah…. I HATE the in-the-moment pressure, it’s truly gross.
I've had two guys REMOVE THE CONDOM mid-intercourse and that my friends is sexual assault.
YUP. Stealthing is a crime, fellas.
Never seems to change. 80’s till now same song.
I know. Haven't we learned anything?! Apparently not.
GOD, SO MUCH THIS. I've been married and monog for ten years, and thankfully I rarely ran into this attitude when I was dating, but I dated for about 20 years before I met my husband, and hoooooly cow did my friends and I have this discussion all the fucking time.
Like het women need another reason to distrust men. Men will literally do this in the bedroom and then go on the internet and complain about child support and women having abortions without consulting them. Sir, you were dumb enough to put your own pleasure before anything else; what right do you have to complain about what happens next?
Ok but insurance should cover HPV vax until 45!
And also, ugh yes, have heard all of these ridic statements from various dating app clowns 😑
ugh. here's one: "I'm pretty picky about partners." like, is that supposed to make me feel special or something. just ugh.
"Not as picky as I am! Bye now!"