You’re completely missing the point. You say gross but the men you are drawn inexorably to are the ones who wield their sexual potency well. Women make all kinds of rules for men and then break them instantly for a hot guy who gives them feels. Breaking yourself of thirstiness and reliance on pprn in order to control your sexual destiny is as important for got married guys as losers. These men are tired of being led around by their dicks and getting nothing. And they’re actually doing something about it that’s an improvement. It sounds like you believe that they should just let themselves remain thirsty all the time, why?
Fascinating. This would be laughable if it wasn't so creepy. Thanks for educating me. I was blissfully ignorant about this, going about my life with no idea this was a thing. Also, I hope you ruled out sleeping with that guy again who treated your desire for an orgasm as a burden. I've so been there. Ugh.
This is a very sad article and I'm certain it's a generational and communications problem. My wife and I are older as are our friends, their wives, husbands, boyfriends and girlfriends. We are all in long term committed relationships and marriages spanning upwards of 35 years. That means we have all been together longer than you are old (generational problem).
It's apparent that SOME people (women & men) withhold sex & intimacy as punishment for a perceived slight or perhaps some other reason - you would have to ask. That happens in marriages, short & long term relationships and casual hookups...
Did you talk to the person you have sex with? Tell them what you want, need and expect? NO - well, you got want you deserved...That's correct, you don't get anything you don't ask for (Communication problem)! And that makes it even more interesting; I hear the wrath of the unsatisfied in great detail, but never do I hear 'I told him what I need / want and he ignored me.'
Do you not understand that YOU are responsible for your own orgasm?
Hey, Loretta. Read your bio. Demographically I was you (divorced in 40, share custody of two kids. Maybe a few years older when I got divorced.). Excelt I'm male. Post divorce dating / sex is really a heterogenous experience. I mean wow. And a woman's experience (you prob have 1000 swipe right s in your tinder and none have read your bio) is the opposite of most males (I swiped right on 1000 and get one match!). Must have something to do with the size of the gamete. My guess is you are pulling in a lot of hot younger men, and that might be your issue. Not all, but a guy who doesn't care about you orgasming is hallmark of a younger man. You might just have to learn from experience how to choose a better partner. My partner and I both feel like we got lucky with each other. As a mid 50s guy, she early 50s, the favorite part of the experience for me is (are) her orgasms. Very different from when I was young! She feels the same!
You’re completely missing the point. You say gross but the men you are drawn inexorably to are the ones who wield their sexual potency well. Women make all kinds of rules for men and then break them instantly for a hot guy who gives them feels. Breaking yourself of thirstiness and reliance on pprn in order to control your sexual destiny is as important for got married guys as losers. These men are tired of being led around by their dicks and getting nothing. And they’re actually doing something about it that’s an improvement. It sounds like you believe that they should just let themselves remain thirsty all the time, why?
Fascinating. This would be laughable if it wasn't so creepy. Thanks for educating me. I was blissfully ignorant about this, going about my life with no idea this was a thing. Also, I hope you ruled out sleeping with that guy again who treated your desire for an orgasm as a burden. I've so been there. Ugh.
This is a very sad article and I'm certain it's a generational and communications problem. My wife and I are older as are our friends, their wives, husbands, boyfriends and girlfriends. We are all in long term committed relationships and marriages spanning upwards of 35 years. That means we have all been together longer than you are old (generational problem).
It's apparent that SOME people (women & men) withhold sex & intimacy as punishment for a perceived slight or perhaps some other reason - you would have to ask. That happens in marriages, short & long term relationships and casual hookups...
Did you talk to the person you have sex with? Tell them what you want, need and expect? NO - well, you got want you deserved...That's correct, you don't get anything you don't ask for (Communication problem)! And that makes it even more interesting; I hear the wrath of the unsatisfied in great detail, but never do I hear 'I told him what I need / want and he ignored me.'
Do you not understand that YOU are responsible for your own orgasm?
Some of these comments are 🤯. 🫠
Hey, Loretta. Read your bio. Demographically I was you (divorced in 40, share custody of two kids. Maybe a few years older when I got divorced.). Excelt I'm male. Post divorce dating / sex is really a heterogenous experience. I mean wow. And a woman's experience (you prob have 1000 swipe right s in your tinder and none have read your bio) is the opposite of most males (I swiped right on 1000 and get one match!). Must have something to do with the size of the gamete. My guess is you are pulling in a lot of hot younger men, and that might be your issue. Not all, but a guy who doesn't care about you orgasming is hallmark of a younger man. You might just have to learn from experience how to choose a better partner. My partner and I both feel like we got lucky with each other. As a mid 50s guy, she early 50s, the favorite part of the experience for me is (are) her orgasms. Very different from when I was young! She feels the same!
In some 'romance' novels, there is a trope of the magical penis and once the heroine experience s says magical penis, everything in her life is fixed.
These men seem to think the same thing too.
I need men to stop making the argument for being single.