This is a great essay and super relatable as a woman who up until age 40 also had a hard stop when disappointment came sexually or attraction wise but now realize it’s often just an experience I haven’t had yet.
I felt this. I was with both large and small guys (dick wise) and while being filled to the brim has its own kind of satisfaction, I tend to be less overwhelmed with smaller dicks, like I can feel other parts of myself better. And yes BJs are the best this way! haha, nice article. I do hope we get over this big dick energy in the media and romance literature soon
I have noticed, in my limited experience, than the more moderate men had better general success at getting me to orgasm without other stimulation. The smaller fellows also seem to indeed have more technical capacity to give pleasure to make up for the lack of size.
interesting article, as someone who tends to be on the small side(5 inches) which some say is average but either way I'm comfortable with it, I appreciate the perspective, there are more than one way to get a woman to orgasm and over the years I have tried to be inventive and for the most part it works. Perhaps us 'smaller' guys put more effort and creativity into it because we feel we have to. For me I just want the woman I am with to enjoy sex as much as I do.
This has always been my understanding. I feel like "big" guys are lazy. They just rely on size. Guys with smaller equipment learn other techniques with hands and lips and tongues and whatnot. I would wager that average and smaller men are probably better, more attentive lovers.
Wow. I have no love for Congress but body-shaming them to comment on the rare article that is supportive of smaller sizes is pathetic. “Gold mind” and “r” confirm this impression.
Pleasures like that can be so much more fulfilling when they're unexpected.
Also, "ethnically non-monogamous" is a funny typo 🤣
ha omg fixing now thank you
It's a Freudian slip. Never going back from black.
I too am ethnically non-monogamous hahahahahaha
Midrange penises are the BEST
This is a great essay and super relatable as a woman who up until age 40 also had a hard stop when disappointment came sexually or attraction wise but now realize it’s often just an experience I haven’t had yet.
WE ARE SO BACK
Guys with average penises are smiling at you all over the world... ;-)
I felt this. I was with both large and small guys (dick wise) and while being filled to the brim has its own kind of satisfaction, I tend to be less overwhelmed with smaller dicks, like I can feel other parts of myself better. And yes BJs are the best this way! haha, nice article. I do hope we get over this big dick energy in the media and romance literature soon
I have noticed, in my limited experience, than the more moderate men had better general success at getting me to orgasm without other stimulation. The smaller fellows also seem to indeed have more technical capacity to give pleasure to make up for the lack of size.
Also getting rammed in the cervix before you're warmed up suuuuuuucks...
interesting article, as someone who tends to be on the small side(5 inches) which some say is average but either way I'm comfortable with it, I appreciate the perspective, there are more than one way to get a woman to orgasm and over the years I have tried to be inventive and for the most part it works. Perhaps us 'smaller' guys put more effort and creativity into it because we feel we have to. For me I just want the woman I am with to enjoy sex as much as I do.
This has always been my understanding. I feel like "big" guys are lazy. They just rely on size. Guys with smaller equipment learn other techniques with hands and lips and tongues and whatnot. I would wager that average and smaller men are probably better, more attentive lovers.
I loved this piece!
You’ll find the gold mind of small penises r in the current Congress.
Wow. I have no love for Congress but body-shaming them to comment on the rare article that is supportive of smaller sizes is pathetic. “Gold mind” and “r” confirm this impression.
There is nothing wrong with any size whether it be cocks clits breast or nipples just enjoy it’s all good
I have not loved big or small. I like medium/average but thicccc haha
I was just telling the universe about my future husband’s penis size yesterday. 😂
Its ok. I like small breasts.
I always doubted my size, until a woman told me honest while we were busy that i filled her well and that she did feel so much
There is no such thing as a bad blowjob
You’ll never hear a man say oh please stop
I’ve only had maybe half dozen relationships in my life, but I never had to push a woman’s head
I think it’s only a matter of practice and becoming comfortable with each other
Most importantly, I think, especially for the woman is having fun
Yes, fun
I'll just say . .hard disagree there 😆
Interesting